• kiddblur@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Funny enough, I’m sure as a net you’re absolutely right but for my family personally it actually means we have to drive more. We have to make two round trips into town each day for my son’s daycare, as opposed to just dropping him off on the way to work and picking him up, so we went from about 30 miles a day driven to about 60. But on the days that my wife’s in the office she can do exactly that.

    But yeah, I agree, I would need a MASSIVE raise to consider going back to an office full time. Enough to pay a housekeeper, eat out every day, and cover the added wear and tear on the car, plus parking, etc. I’m saving a fortune by staying home every day, and it’s done wonders for my mental health.

    I do miss the collaboration aspect, but I can charge my social batteries on weekly lunch zoom calls with my friends

    • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆@lemmy.mlOP
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      1 year ago

      Unfortunately, North America suffers from terrible city planning. It never ceases to amaze me that it’s practically impossible to get around without a car in so many places in US and Canada. I grew up in USSR, and everything was organized using microdistricts which were designed so that you had everything you needed within walking distance, and most of the time you didn’t even need to use public transit to get around. It’s one of the things I miss the most living in Canada nowadays.

      And I agree that in person collab can be smoother, but zoom is a decent trade off. also find you get interrupted less with remote work. When people are in the office it’s really easy to just pop up somebody’s cubicle.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah, I agree, but I also kind of like it? I know it goes against a lot of popular opinion online, and obviously it’s annoying that I have to drive 5 minutes to get to a grocery store or 15 to drop my kid off, but my neighborhood is cut into the middle of the woods so we’re secluded and we get to see lots of wilderness around us. But our houses are close together so we’re all really friendly with each other and have a great community where it feels totally safe to let the kids play outside until far after dark.

        It also helps that I love driving, and I specifically love my car, so even though I’ve driven 20K miles / 32K km in the past year, it doesn’t feel like much time wasted because I’ve loved doing it

        • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆@lemmy.mlOP
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          1 year ago

          It’s a different approach for sure. Back in USSR we had dense housing, but it was surrounded by lots of parks, so there was a lot of nature to enjoy as well. And it was definitely safer than anything I’ve experienced in the west. People would let their kids out to play completely unsupervised, and you’d have seniors go to the park in the evening. The idea of being mugged wasn’t even something anyone could imagine.

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      1 year ago

      I do miss the collaboration aspect, but I can charge my social batteries on weekly lunch zoom calls with my friends

      IMO this is a big part of why companies are pushing return to work, even if employees hate it. They want the lunch conversation and collaboration to be with other company employees. They want to make sure that if someone has a really cool new idea, that the idea is owned by the company. They don’t want the employee to leave to start a company with their friends instead.

      If your entire social life is on the Google / Facebook / Apple campus, then any ideas you have are likely to be owned by the company too.

      If you work from home, take breaks IRL or online with your friends, etc. then you’re less tied to the company. You don’t even necessarily need to quit to form a new company. You could even start one while working at your day job, as long as your performance doesn’t suffer.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah, it makes perfect sense from the perspective of the company. I just disagree with its value as an employee