Which one is easier to develop and work with (which saves the most time)? Which one would you go for? The name of the API represents its true purpose in this case by the way, createOrUpdate creates or updates the passed in meeting and create just creates the meeting. I will be the only one working on this project for now, although obviously, I would like others to work on it with me eventually.
Many databases or database clients have an “upsert” operation which is exactly this. Create or update this entity. If the DB supports it you can save an explicit lookup giving minor performance and code cleanliness improvements in application but might shift that performance cost to the DB (had to rollback a prod change not too long ago because someone switched to a PG upsert and it caused average CPU to rise, haven’t gotten a chance to investigate why yet, something about indexes probably).
Anyway, I tend to start with just explicit create and update methods and add an “upsert” abstraction if I find myself sprinkling lots of checks around making code messy. So I would go for “createOrUpdateFoo” in that case.
Is there any reason that the caller wouldn’t know if the meeting they’re holding has been created or not? I’d keep it simple by keeping them separate unless there’s a compelling reason to meld them.