Same… Nothing against trans people, they can do them, but I have absolutely zero interest in reading about that sort of thing in much the same way I have zero interest in reading about stamp collection.

Ultimately, I joined Lemmy as a reddit refugee… If Lemmy turns out to be a place where I’m not interested in the majority after some time I’ll just leave 🤷

The world’s best vegetable dish is average at best compared to a dish that includes meat.

That’s an opinion based on my taste, and an opinion a lot of omnivores share, it isn’t wrong… Neither is it right for you - however it does seem to be the opinion most hold.

Run your own vpn, and only allow access to your services remotely if they are coming through that vpn.

Now you’ve shifted some of the security over to how secure your vpn server’s authentication is.

No… Because unfortunately a lot of the complexity needs to be abstracted away.

I’ve been here for a few days now, the complexity is nice, but it isn’t conducive to users, maybe Sync can abstract away a lot of the complexity.

As it stands, no Lemmy isn’t a thing, and you know it too.