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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • I tend to be one of those people who wants to say yes to everything. That’s partially because I’m a people pleaser and don’t want to disappoint. But I’m trying to be better about protecting my time. If something doesn’t get a “hell yeah” gut reaction from me, it’s probably best that I decline. “Present me” tends to overestimate how excited “future me” will be about some commitment.

    Having said that though, it should be a healthy balance I think. Some of the better experiences I’ve had have been ones where I was initially reluctant about them but ended up being glad I did them.

    So… Balance. Protect your time. But it’s also okay to occasionally step out of the comfort zone.