For Matrix, I’d recommend conduit
over synapse
, with the expectation that all of synapse’s features haven’t yet been added (most notably support for spaces, which may or may not be a dealbreaker).
It’s incredibly easy to set-up and very lightweight. I never self-hosted synapse due to how resource-heavy it is, and constantly had issues with dendrite
racking up resources as well.conduit
has honestly been the easiest thing I’ve self-hosted.
This is what I’ve been using for a few days: https://github.com/soundjester/lemmy_monkey