didn’t we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how ‘everyone thinks women are hot’ so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?

like as a guy i don’t even…have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all

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    I for one have maybe done so 5 times in my 40 years of life and do not feel the urge to do so. Only times I did I was drunk or high and I don’t do that stuff. I rather just relax.

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      @Ataraxia there’s so much diversity in the world!

      I was probably doing it like 10x a day when I was a teen. Went to an all girls boarding school and it was just well known that most people there did it.